Cristina Ciobanu, MS, NCC

Licensed Professional Counselor Associate

Supervised by Ryan Holliman, PhD, LPC-S

The work behind my work

I'm Cristina, a betrayal trauma therapist based in Frisco, Texas, providing virtual therapy to clients across the state. My work focuses on evidence-based support for betrayal trauma, infidelity, and divorce, helping adults throughout Texas find clarity and healing after their trust has been broken.

My path into this work was never straightforward. Life has asked me to redefine myself more than once, moving through seasons of uncertainty, loss, and change, and figuring out who I was again when things no longer felt familiar. Because of that, I understand how unsettling it feels when life shifts beneath you and the person you once knew yourself to be no longer feels fully intact.

Before becoming a therapist, I worked in the business world. On paper, it made sense. But the longer I stayed there, the more I realized I was far more drawn to people than anything happening on a spreadsheet. I found myself wanting to understand what shapes us, what hurts us, what keeps us stuck, and what helps us heal. That pull stayed with me until I finally stopped ignoring it and chose to follow it.

I've always wanted to understand things deeply, not just symptoms or behaviors, but the emotional experience underneath them: the relationship patterns, the grief people carry quietly, the ways we lose ourselves trying to survive difficult things, and the parts of us that still want healing even after disappointment or pain. That curiosity is both personal and professional, and it shapes how I sit with people: present, thoughtful, and unhurried, even with what's complex.

Part of that depth comes from my own lived experience. I've experienced betrayal trauma personally, the kind that can shake your sense of reality, trust, identity, and emotional safety. It changed me, both as a person and as a therapist.

Not because I believe my story is the same as yours, but because I understand how layered these experiences can be.

I know what it feels like to look okay on the outside while quietly trying to make sense of something painful and life-changing. I know how exhausting it is to overthink, overfunction, question yourself, and still try to hold everything together at once.

Because of that, I approach this work with care, calm presence, and deep respect for what people carry.

When you sit across from me, my hope is that you feel genuinely seen, not judged, rushed, or reduced to a set of symptoms, but supported as a whole person, finding clarity, healing, and a stronger connection to yourself again.

Outside of the therapy room

Music was a meaningful part of my early life. I played the violin for several years, spent time on piano, and sang professionally for a period. Looking back, I think music shaped the way I listen, notice nuance, and stay present with what exists beneath the surface.

I'm originally from Romania and speak fluent Romanian. I've also had the opportunity to travel to over ten countries, experiences that broadened the way I understand people, identity, culture, and the different ways we make meaning of our lives.

I've always been deeply curious about people, drawn toward authenticity, emotional depth, and genuine human connection. Music, laughter, meaningful relationships, and simply being present with others are some of the things that help me feel most connected to life, and that naturally carries into the way I show up as a therapist.

I'm also someone who is continually learning. I regularly turn to books, podcasts, research, and ongoing professional development to deepen my understanding of how people heal, grow, and move through change, not only clinically, but humanly.

At my core, I believe we are more than symptoms, diagnoses, or patterns of behavior. There's a meaningful connection between the mind, body, emotions, relationships, and the deeper parts of ourselves that often go unseen. Practices like meditation, reformer Pilates, and time in nature help me regulate my own nervous system and stay grounded, and that same presence carries into my work with clients.

Education & Credentials

  • Licensed Professional Counselor Associate supervised by Dr.Ryan Holliman, PhD, LPC-S

  • National Certified Counselor (NCC)

  • M.S. in Counseling and Development (Texas Woman’s University, Denton, TX)

  • B.A. in Psychology (University of Nevada Las Vegas, Las Vegas, NV)

Training

  • Extensive training in betrayal and infidelity trauma and relational trauma
    anxiety and depression grief and loss, major life transitions

  • Approach is both insight-oriented and pragmatic helping you understand what’s happening while also giving you tools you can actually use in real life

  • Specialized focus on identity disruption and self-worth, emotional overwhelm and nervous system responses patterns of overfunctioning and relationship dynamics

  • Integrated practical, skills-based work including mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness